Frasi di Elizabeth Gilbert

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“Tu sei quello che pensi. Le tue emozioni sono schiave dei tuoi pensieri, e tu sei schiavo delle tue emozioni.”

“Io dico che il matrimonio è come una fortezza: il posto più sicuro dove stare finché non sei sotto attacco e, allora, diventa una trappola mortale. O come il tofu, né buono, né cattivo: a seconda di come lo cucini può diventare qualcosa di assolutamente buono o di assolutamente terribile.”

“Un giorno ripenserai a questo momento della tua vita come ad un dolce momento di dolore. Vedrai che eri in lutto e il tuo cuore era spezzato, ma la tua vita stava cambiando …”

“È un buon segno, avere il cuore spezzato. Significa che abbiamo provato qualcosa.”

“Dal centro della mia vita venne una grande fontana…”

“Qualcuno ha detto che in America è più facile avere un presidente nero piuttosto che celibe. Credo sia vero. L'opinione pubblica è sospettosa verso chi non è sposato.”

“[Riguardo il matrimonio] Per me la domanda fondamentale era: perché abbiamo ancora bisogno di un'istituzione così antiquata? L'unica risposta sensata che ho trovato è che la gente continua a innamorarsi e a desiderare di costruire un rapporto intimo con un'altra persona, che per riuscirci ha bisogno di privacy, e che per avere la privacy servono i diritti. Altrimenti, come è successo a me, il governo può arrestare l'uomo che ami e portarlo via in manette.”

“l’amor che move il sole e l’altre stelle…”

“«Di la verdad, di la verdad, di la verdad».”

“Essere pienamente visti da qualcuno, quindi, ed essere amati comunque - questa è un'offerta umana che può rasentare il miracoloso.”

“He was powerful and I died of love in his shadow.”

“Be the weirdo who dares to enjoy.”

“Happiness is the consequence of personal effort.”

“Everything really is going to be okay. (And if not okay, then at least comic.)”

“With each reunion (we) had to learn each other all over again. There was always that nervous moment at the airport when I would stand there waiting for him to arrive, wondering, Will I still know him? Will he still know me?”

“What worked yesterday doesn't always work today.”

“It's easy enough to pray when you're in distress but continuing to pray even when your crisis has passed is like a sealing process, helping your soul hold tight to its good attainment.”

“You can measure your worth by your dedication to your path, not by your successes or failures.”

“Life's metaphors are God's instructions.”

“By unnerving definition, anything that the heart has chosen for its own mysterious reasons it can always unchoose later—again, for its own mysterious reasons.”

“The resting place of the mind is the heart.”

“I guess what I want to learn is how to live in this world and enjoy its delights but also devote myself to God.”

“the number 108 is held to be the most auspicious, a perfect three-digit multiple of three, its components adding up to 9, which is three threes. And 3, of course, is the number representing supreme balance.”

“Most of us, even if only for two minutes in our lives, have experienced at some time or another an inexplicable and random sense of complete bliss, unrelated to anything that was happening in the outside world.”

“The act of quiet nighttime talking, illustrates for me more than anything else the curious alchemy of companionship.”

“I am the planet's most affectionate life-form, something like the cross between a golden retriever and a barnacle.”

“Marriage becomes hard work once you have poured the entirety of your life’s expectations for happiness into the hands of one mere person. Keeping that going is hard work.”

“For if there is one thing I have learned over the years about men, it is that feelings of powerlessness do not usually bring forth their finest qualities.”

“Also, I could finally sleep. And this was the real gift, because when you cannot sleep, you cannot get yourself out of the ditch--there's not a chance.”

“Take me someplace where we can be silent together.”

“Liz, you must be very polite with yourself when you are learning something new.”

“Man, they got mosquitoes 'round this place big enough to rape a chicken.”

“This was not my moment to be seeking romance and (as day follows night) to further complicate my already knotty life. This was my moment to look for the kind of healing and peace that can only come from solitude.”

“Guilt's just your ego's way of tricking you into thinking that you're making moral progress. Don't fall for it, my dear.”

“I know this simple fact to be true, for I myself have abandoned people who did not want me to go, and I myself have been abandoned by those whom I begged to stay.”

“I just want God. I want God inside me. I want God to play in my bloodstream the way sunlight amuses itself on water.”

“I would like to spend the rest of my days in a place so silent–and working at a pace so slow–that I would be able to hear myself living.”

“My heart was broken so badly last time that it still hurts. Isn't that crazy? To still have a broken heart almost two years after a love story ends?”

“So this, I believe, is the central question upon which all creative living hinges: Do you have the courage to bring forth the treasures that are hidden within you?”