Frasi di Elizabeth Gilbert

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“Tu sei quello che pensi. Le tue emozioni sono schiave dei tuoi pensieri, e tu sei schiavo delle tue emozioni.”

“Io dico che il matrimonio è come una fortezza: il posto più sicuro dove stare finché non sei sotto attacco e, allora, diventa una trappola mortale. O come il tofu, né buono, né cattivo: a seconda di come lo cucini può diventare qualcosa di assolutamente buono o di assolutamente terribile.”

“Un giorno ripenserai a questo momento della tua vita come ad un dolce momento di dolore. Vedrai che eri in lutto e il tuo cuore era spezzato, ma la tua vita stava cambiando …”

“È un buon segno, avere il cuore spezzato. Significa che abbiamo provato qualcosa.”

“Dal centro della mia vita venne una grande fontana…”

“Qualcuno ha detto che in America è più facile avere un presidente nero piuttosto che celibe. Credo sia vero. L'opinione pubblica è sospettosa verso chi non è sposato.”

“[Riguardo il matrimonio] Per me la domanda fondamentale era: perché abbiamo ancora bisogno di un'istituzione così antiquata? L'unica risposta sensata che ho trovato è che la gente continua a innamorarsi e a desiderare di costruire un rapporto intimo con un'altra persona, che per riuscirci ha bisogno di privacy, e che per avere la privacy servono i diritti. Altrimenti, come è successo a me, il governo può arrestare l'uomo che ami e portarlo via in manette.”

“l’amor che move il sole e l’altre stelle…”

“«Di la verdad, di la verdad, di la verdad».”

“Essere pienamente visti da qualcuno, quindi, ed essere amati comunque - questa è un'offerta umana che può rasentare il miracoloso.”

“You may return here once you have fully come to understand that you are always here.”

“Well, just remember--all your misery will be waiting for you at the door upon your exit, should you care to pick it up again when you leave.”

“You love new boyfriend?"
"I think so. Yes."
"Then you must spoil him. And he must spoil you.”

“Yoga is the effort to experience one's divinity personally and then to hold on to that experience forever.”

“I love my pizza so much, in fact, that I have come to believe in my delirium that my pizza might actually love me, in return. I am having a relationship with this pizza, almost an affair.”

“Someone has to write all those stories: why not me?”

“Teach your heart that this is destiny”

“Done is better than good.”

“Until I can feel as ecstatic about having a baby as I felt about going to New Zealand to search for giant squid, I cannot have a baby.”

“Sometimes out hearts are broken so new light can get in.”

“Every intimacy carries secreted somewhere below its initial lovely surfaces, the ever-coiled makings of complete catastrophe.”

“Anyhow, the older I get, the less impressed I become with originality. These days, I’m far more moved by authenticity. Attempts at originality can often feel forced and precious, but authenticity has quiet resonance that never fails to stir me.”

“Attraversiamo (meaning "Lets cross over" in Italian)”

“Fear--who cares?”

“I do not need to love you to prove that I love myself!!”

“Nothing is so essential as dignity…Time will reveal who has it and who has it not.”

“Religion is for those who don't want to go to hell, and spirituality is for those who have already been there.”

“Clearing out all your misery gets you out of the way. You cease being an obstacle, not only to yourself but to anyone else. Only then are you free to serve and enjoy other people.”

“God waited me out.”

“You must find another reason to work, other than the desire for success or recognition. It must come from another place.”

“Devotion is diligence without assurance”

“I was doing something I'd never done before. And what will I be able to do tomorrow that I cannot yet do today?”

“Every word was a singing sparrow, a magic trick, a truffle for me. The words made me laugh in delight.”

“All I could say was, "I don't know what to do." I remember her taking me by the shoulders and looking me in the eye with a calm smile and saying simply, "Tell the truth, tell the truth, tell the truth.”

“What time has ever been a simple time for those who are living it?”

“My heart skipped a beat and then flat-out tripped over itself and fell on its face. Then my heart stood up, brushed itself off, took a deep breath and announced: "I want a spiritual teacher.”

“Who loves you most? Who loves you best? Who thinks of you when others rest?”

“a woman's place is in the kitchen… sitting in a comfortable chair, with her feet up, drinking a glass of wine and watching her husband cook dinner.”

“the great lack of parity between husbands and wives has always been spawned by the disproportionate degree of self-sacrifice that women are willing to make on behalf of those they love.”